Are You Devastated After An Affair?
Of course who wouldn't be devastated after an affair. How do you handle the feelings of betrayal, shock, sadness, anxiety, anger, helplessness, fear and resentment? I could only imagine, no wait, actually I can imagine. Being down that road myself I do understand and know very well how it feels. Even just writing this brings back the flood of feelings and images that went through my mind after finding out my significant other had cheated.
You need to know that you're alone and what you're feeling and thinking is normal. I would like to help you work through those emotions, and horrific images that go through your mind. Having a system in place to guide you through this is the key to having your self esteem and your life back.
- Discovering the Affair: How to Cope with the Initial Trauma......page 12
- You Are Not Alone.....page 12
- Nine Shockwaves: The Nine Most Common Questions You Will Strugglewith When You First Find Out..page 13
- “I Feel Like I’m Going Crazy”: Learning That the Plague of Thoughts You Are Having is Natural.....page 27
- Obsessions: What to Do When the Plague of Images Won’t Go Away................. 32
- An 8-Step Program for Learning Better-Than-Ever Communication.................... 9
- The Five Myths That Surround Acceptance........ 153
There's no need to scour the internet looking for answers (as I did when that happened to me) or paying expensive therapists or in fact even leaving your house to find relief. Dr. Gunzburg's “How To Survive An Affair” is accessible right here, right now!
Really helpful article. I am sending this link to my friend going through this.I am wondering about this program...the effectiveness. Very interesting
ReplyDeleteThis can be such a devastating thing for any couple to go through. The questions you pointed out are the first things that come into peoples heads....and the most obvious...can the relationship survive. Nice article.
ReplyDeleteSuch a tough thing to deal with and go through. Counseling and help is the key. This program sounds like it could be a huge help for any couple dealing with this.
ReplyDeleteIt can definitely be tough. Need to find some distractions.
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ReplyDeleteOh!That was sad. I will be lonely if I found him with an affair.
ReplyDeleteI loved this article. The questions that run through your mind and the desperation to find answers can be agonizing. A spouse who cheats on you is such a painful experience. To find that you have been betrayed is devastating to say the least. Thank you for the helpful advice.
ReplyDeleteThanks for this, i know how devastating it is to have this happen to you. People who have had this done to them need all the support they can get.
ReplyDeleteI wish you a better life and more power to you. You will be fine.
ReplyDeleteLife is cruel but we just have to find the best way to cope up with it.
It really is hard to realize that you are the one who has to go through all the pain and heartbreak even after they are the ones who hurt you
ReplyDeleteWhen you have been violated in such a way it just takes the breath out of you.Don't give up forgiveness is the key. Thank you for the great read!
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Your posts again took me to the past when I was really in love with a guy. I thought he loved me too but after someday I found him not trust worthy and left him then.
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That level of deception can be devastasting. It can take time to heel or even try and come back.Some human beings can be so cruel and evil to others, these people never take into account the hurt and anger their actions will cause.
ReplyDeleteMental toughness and strength can be the essential ingredients to come back from a damaging relationship
To discover that your partner has been cheating can be the ultimate insult and betrayal. If you were married or in a long term relationship at the time then that can make matters worse.
ReplyDeleteCheating is destroying trust, there is no other way to put it. Sadly much temptation is around in modern society, so it all depends on how much love and respect one has for the other before committing to cheating.
If someone cheated on me in a relationship I would just take this as a note to change something.
ReplyDeleteIn nature males sole purpose is to propogate their genes. So it is understandable that they would want to stray
Thanks for this, i know how devastating it is to have this happen to you. People who have had this done to them need all the support they can get.
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This is the worst thing that can happen to a relationship, it is hard to forgive and forget when your loved one cheats, it hurts your heart and makes you question yourself, "am i not pretty enough?" "should i have been more easy going?" this kinda thing can break somebody. Stay strong and always remember there are more fish in the sea. Thanks for the awsome blog
ReplyDeleteIt is really hard accepting and building back a relationship again after finding that you are being betrayed, especially when you give everything to make your relationship work.
ReplyDeleteHelpful article especially for those who are suffering from betrayals. Keep posting, I will be following your every post. Thanks
ReplyDeleteGreat informative article. Knowing about the affair surely hurts, trust is lost, relationship
ReplyDeleteis hard to be back to normal again.
It's a tough decision to have a break up but it is tougher to undergo to process of coping up...
ReplyDeleteIts one of the hardest thing, having been cheated in 2 relationships, I can really relate to this article. It took my nearly 4 years to get back in a relationship, as I felt I could not trust anyone. But now i'm more happier than ever with a faithful partner
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